Healthy people are their own source of fulfillment. They no longer look to others to feel whole. The ability to get this healthy takes years of experience, failures, and self awareness. It also brings much more genuine and satisfying interactions with others. Healthy people don’t need to deceive others by acting like someone they’re not in order to be liked because they’re not afraid of being rejected or alone. Healthy people enjoy being alone, so there's no need to manipulate or control anyone to be with them. Healthy people have no empty void to fill, so the time they spend with others is because they genuinely want to, not because they’re feeling lonely. Healthy people enjoy helping others therefore never feel resentment or bitterness, because the good deeds aren't done to gain something in return. Healthy people can tell if someone is genuine or a fake. Unhealthy people with no self respect or integrity are starving for love and acceptance. Starving people will eat anything, even poison (abuse). Fake flattery and cheesy charm taste like shit to healthy people. But to starving people, they eat it up. Healthy wise women no longer accept abuse or disrespect of any kind from anyone when WE become our own source of joy, and contentment. There is great power in this way of life! Stay healthy ✌️
You don’t have to live like everybody else. In fact, you’ll probably be happier if you don’t.”
-Joshua Becker
“Sometimes happiness is about less, not more. Less stuff. Less striving. Less waiting for tomorrow when there’s a lot to appreciate and enjoy today.”
-Lori Deschene
“Realize that you—and only you—are responsible for your own happiness. Do the things you love and that you find meaningful, partner or not. Yes, having a wonderful relationship can be one of life’s greatest joys and blessings. But no one else is capable of, nor should be responsible, for making you happy. That is your job.” -Eric Teplitz
