Women have it hard when they get a menopausal death sentence handed to them and then they are told that this is NORMAL.
NORMAL to have:
- No natural lubrication
- No natural hormone production
- No libido
Basically, no life.
At least, no life-force.
All gone!
But instead, because your body is so inept, you can very conveniently be saddled with a lifelong supply of KY jelly, artificial hormones and a brand new drug for female libido, and a few organ removal surgeries to kick things off.
Look, if you are an allopathic doctor or OBGYN, menopausal women are your cash cow.
They are the gift that just keeps giving.
Seriously. ON drugs for life.
They are a drug dealer’s i.e. an allopathic doctor’s wet dream.
This is such a crock of shit.
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First off, menopause as a shitty experience is a largely Western and mostly North American concept.
There are places and cultures on the planet that don’t even have a term to refer to this stage of woman’s life.
France is known as “the country that menopause forgot.”
In Japan, they don’t even have a name for “Hot flashes”.
And there are indigenous cultures that don’t even acknowledge any kind of shift.
It’s just part of life and there isn’t any mandatory awful symptoms that have been prescribed along with it, so women simply don’t have them.
Because they don’t know they’re supposed to.
It’s also seen that in cultures where older women are perceived as still sexual and beautiful, women experience less of these prescribed, North American symptoms.
And of course, you have our old friend, the Western medicine motto: the Normalization of Dysfunction.
Meaning, if you can make it seem that it’s NORMAL that people experience such poor health, then your baseline is pretty low.
And NOT having problems is the rarity.
And now, we have this gloriously fucked up culture, that’s pretty much I would say a calculated campaign by people who profit off these things, to say “OH, you are SHAMING women by saying they can have a pain-free, trouble free, soaking wet vagina, a billion orgasms menopause. That’s terrible.:
So you’ve just armed this whole sect of people to fight! For the right!
For DYSFUNCTION! SING IT!
Well, we don’t do that over here in Anami Land. So if you want to learn how to free yourself out of this unhealthy and deadly paradigm, then stick around and learn.
If you are whining about shaming, you can see yourself to the door.
PREGNENALONE STEAL
My own explanation for difficult menopause has been that if a woman is loaded up with several factors of stress, ill health and imbalance, then the turning point of menopause will exacerbate these things.
It’s a transition time in the body, where it naturally looks for other sources to produce the hormones it needs for the woman to remain alive and juicy.
Do we really think that nature is so dumb, or in this case, mean too, that it’s going to say, oh, you are totally finished. Bye Bye!
Nope.
It’s a time of re-configuration.
If the woman is healthy and strong, this will pass with nary a blip on the radar.
If she’s not, it will be like another stone on a pile of rocks that weigh her down.
Most people DO NOT take very good care of themselves.
Their diets aren’t optimal, they don’t exercise regularly or at all, and they don’t keep their emotional house in check.
So MOST PEOPLE are going to be hit very hard by these transitions.
Why is it that the women I know, including myself, who are committed to radical good health, sail through this time, no problem?
From a physiological perspective, there is a name for this “failure to thrive”.
It’s called pregnenalone steal and it can happen in men and women.
It’s a common symptom of the modern world.
Pregnenalone is known as the “mother of hormones”.
When your body is in a constant stress state, it’s generating adrenalin and cortisol and there isn’t much left over to produce the other hormones that you need, say, for proper sexual health.
Like: progesterone, estrogen, and testosterone.
This can mean you feel tired, depressed, have a low sex drive, increased weight gain and it effects your periods and menopause.
So my view is, that a body and woman in optimal health are going to waltz right through menopause.
The things a woman need to, would be:
- Exercise her vagina: with a jade yoni egg.
- Eat well: whole foods, organically grown diet.
- Exercise her whole body. I mean really exercise. Walking a few times a week isn’t exercise. you need to sweat!
- Feng shui her sexual self and relationship.
These things will get her going again.
Especially the sexual pieces.
I’ve had women who are in the category of NOT eating that well, not really exercising, not even exercising their vaginas, and they come gushing back to life when they clear blocks in themselves and in their relationships.
BOOM.
I’ve also had women who simply began exercising their 60-70 year old vaginas, and feng shui their sexual selves, and BOOM, all the 60 and 70-year-old ladies be gushing.
My point is, that these conditions are not mandatory. They aren’t a necessary part of menopause.
Low libido, lack of wetness, not feeling amazing.
There can be different factors contributing to these thing.
Yes, stress can effect hormone production, and overall health.
But there is always a solution.
And hacks!
Meaning, that just using a jade egg can trump having stress.
Once you wake up your sexual energy and heal sexual blocks, that creates such an elevated effect in your system that it TRANSCENDS these ofter factors.
Even diet and exercise and stress.
It goes beyond them.
My view is that in nearly every situation there IS A SOLUTION that is natural, healthy and uplifting for the entire system.
My solutions DO NOT include drugs and surgery, except in extreme, extreme cases.
The sexual prescription is #1.
One of the best ways to combat stress and cortisol??
SEX!!!
The oxytocin you generate through gourmet sex and orgasms, especially vaginal orgasms, has the effect of immediately wiping out cortisol.
So a lot of orgasms and great sex is actually your best remedy for menopausal stuff and potential pregnenalone steal.
The women I know who triumph through this time in their lives, have sexual self-knowledge, are committed to their sex lives and have the intention that they will slide right on through.
And they do.
https://kimanami.com/the-myths-of-menopause/
