Bringing a child into the world means your life stops revolving around you. It is not a mirror to admire yourself in, a bandage for your loneliness, or a pawn in your unfinished war. It’s a sacred responsibility. They are a fragile soul handed to you by fate and from that moment on, your comfort, your wants, your whims all move to the backseat. Protection and nurture become your compass. Kids aren’t accessories, they’re a vow. If that kind of sacrifice feels too heavy, too inconvenient, or too restrictive for your world, then the most loving thing you can do is choose not to bring a child into it.
